Get married early

 

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may you be blessed!”
It was narrated from Aishah that:
the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)  said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.” It’s so so important to get married early

its a natural inclination or fitra ( to the natural inclination toward goodness and faith) find a comfort between a man and a woman

it is very unfortunate that education, luxury comforts, materialism is taking precedence over getting married early in your life

go back just 50-100 years and it was not uncommon for a woman to marry between 15-17 years of age

but now so many good men and women cannot find chaste partners as time has passed them by

people are also afraid of getting married, and even parents are often a hurdle in finding a suitable mate

its ridiculous that familied are asking for resumes!

they are just looking for money-stability-education-standard of living-lineage– and thats about all

what happened to character. chastity, Islam (the correct one), honor, transparency

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that:
the Messenger of Allah said: “No woman should arrange the marriage of another woman, and no woman should arrange her own marriage. The adulteress is the one who arranges her own marriage.”
“A man came to the Messenger of Allah and said: ‘I have found a woman who is from a good family and of good status, but she does not bear children, should I marry her?’ He told him not to. Then he came to him a second time and he told him not to (marry her). Then he came to him a third time and he told him not to (marry her), then he said: ‘Marry the one who is fertile and loving, for I will boast of your great numbers.'”
for the women:
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The strong man is not the one who wrestles, but the strong man is in fact the one who controls himself in a fit of rage.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

 

Narrated Thawban:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: If any woman asks her husband for divorce without some strong reason, the odour of Paradise will be forbidden to her.

Sunan Abi Dawud- Sahih (Al-Albani)

there are so many advice that i cant put it all here

so many people (especially Muslims) never study Hadith- Sunnah and so we invite ourselves to so many problems

if your one of those who want to marry only one time, then lets start the clean conversation to a believing man or woman

if all you care about is looks or money. then please exit this site and come back when youve learned the hard way

And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought    30:21 Quran

sisters and brothers

come as you are- do not wear hair extensions, wigs, color, make up or altered to something else

the prophet ﷺ  cursed the one who wears hair extensions, or does it for a living, plucks the eyebrows

and make sure your earning are halal— and if you don’t know

then we need to discuss that